Im willing to work, What can I do to get a horse? ?

it's kind of hard to understand what exactly you are asking. if you're asking if you should give up your dream of getting a horse, the answer is a big NO! i was in a similar situation with the mom saying yes and the dad not so happy about it (and i'm 19! almost 20!!) but i made it clear that i would pay for everything it would need and now i have a gelding (as of march) and soon i will have a foal as well! :) so definitely don't give up! and I would suggest getting 2 horses because horses are herd animals and they need the company of other horses. if that isn't what you're asking you might want to add some details to your question.